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Breaking a Bad Habit

You have the best of intentions. You give speech after speech using strong visuals, compelling examples and riveting stories to make your points come alive. But then, slowly, your speaking skills start to dissolve. The next thing you know, you’ve become a boring hack, just like everyone else.

How did it happen?

Here is the usual suspect. You are supposed to speak at a conference in 3 weeks. The conference coordinator calls your office urgently and says “Can you email your presentation today? We promised all of the attendees that we would send them in advance!”

But you are on the road, or busy. So you ask a staffer to put together a rough draft PowerPoint slide. Since the assistant isn’t a mind reader, all he/she can do is list bullet points of concepts that you have discussed before on this subject, or take out facts and numbers from your website and previous presentations. So far, no harm, because this is just a draft.

But now the speech is tomorrow and you haven’t had time to think about it. And all you have is the “draft” prepared by your assistant. There’s still time to prepare a great speech on the plane. But things come up, as they always do, and you are preoccupied.

Now you have to give the speech in five minutes. And you are left with one option: you will kinda, sorta read the bullet points on the PowerPoint slide to your audience. You know it was awful, compared to your normal way of speaking. But nobody came up to complain afterwards. In fact, several people still complemented you, though they were vendors looking to do business with you.

The next thing you know, you’ve gone six months and a dozen speeches using this technique of reading bullet points off of a screen. You have a new habit.

Stop! You are destroying your reputation! And no one has the guts to tell you!

Throw away your slides and start from scratch. For your next speech, you need to come up with five major points, and then an example and a story for each point. Then, come up with a visual slide for each point that contains no words. Finally, prepare a one-page outline that reminds you of your key points, examples, stories and slides. Finally, rehearse.

Now you are ready to re-enter the society of interesting speakers and presenters. Welcome back.

 

 

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Setting Up the Room in which you will be Speaking

  1. While you are speaking, try to have a sign placed on the doors outside that says, “Meeting in progress. Do not enter.”
  2. A warm room can put people to sleep. Try to make it cooler. (70-72 degrees Fahrenheit is a nice temperature.)
  3. Look at the floor between your chair and the lectern, if applicable, to spot bumps, cords and other obstructions.
  4. Try to eliminate empty chairs from the room - you want a full house.
  5. When possible, ask the banquet manager to serve the dessert and coffee with the meal so you won’t be interrupted by waiters when giving your after dinner speech.
  6. Never speak in front of an open window. It is too distracting.
  7. Check the sound system in a room before speaking.
  8. If you get loud feedback from your microphone, quickly turn it off, walk further away from the speakers, and then turn the microphone back on.
  9. If music is being piped in, ask for it to be shut off.

 

Applying Makeup for TV

  1. TV lights do several unflattering things to people who aren’t wearing makeup. The heat of the lights will make you sweat, even if you don’t normally perspire. That sweat will make you look shiny and oily—not a flattering look. Additionally, the pressure of appearing on TV makes most people more nervous than usual, resulting in more perspiration.
  2. You need to wear makeup, not to change your looks, but to keep yourself from having your looks altered beyond recognition.
  3. All you really need is powder makeup to cover your face. There is no magic brand or style of makeup you need to solve your problems.
  4. You simply need to find makeup that is the same color as your skin.
  5. It is very important that the makeup color is NOT darker or lighter than your own skin. If you get the color wrong, it will contrast starkly and make you look silly on TV.
  6. If you think you might be on TV anytime in the next year, then you should go to a local drug store to purchase a small compact of powder that matches your color.
  7. Then, all you have to do is pat it on and blend it in so that it is smooth all over.

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